Dear Sue's_babypetey,
Thank you for your honesty, and heart-felt openness.
A few thoughts on what you said.......
(1.) Please rest assured, that you already have "true acceptance" in this thing called, "The abdl community". (The reason for the quotation marks, is because I sometimes question if there really is something called the "abdl community". Let me expand on that....)
In some way, you are too late, because in my opinion, the peek, or "hayday" of the abdl community, was 10 to 15 years ago. At that time, there was an explosion of REAL abdl web sites accross the internet. What I mean by REAL abdl web sites are the 100's and 100's of sites that, like this one, had real conversations with and amoung abdl's along with photo sharing and 1,000's of abdl stories writen and posted for anyone to download. The "Granddaddy" of all, was DPF, which published a newsletter that was mailed to YOUR HOUSE and LISTED THE ADDRESS and PHONE NUMBERS of abdl's accross the U.S. That's how I first contacted and talked to other adult babies, I got my first DPF newsletter in the Summer of 1993 and there were over 100 abdl's listed, and I just started calling and mailing letters.
Saddly, those days are over. DPF is dying, because it's founder and owner Tommy is sick and dying. And all those wonderful abdl sites from 10 or 15 years ago, are shut down and in their place are porno sites that market themselves as "ABDL" but are really just old-fashioned smut.
This site, Phone-A-Mommy, is a shining jem.
In many respects, Phone-A-Mommy is like the ABDL sites used to be back in the day.... free.... honest disscusion, amoung babies and mommies. In today's ABDL world, that is very rare, which is why I love this place so much.
(2.) You basicly proved my point, by saying that you are on disability and do not work, and can therefore wear diapers 24/7 if you want to.
In fact, the only AB I know who is 24/7 in diapers, is a guy who dresses as a baby girl, in public, 24/7, because he is retired and does not have to work. However, his wearing diapers and baby girl clothes in public is not without it's problems. Many times he has been asked to leave stores and malls, because other people feel "uncomfortable" with a 55 year old man dressed as a baby girl, complete with thick cloth diapers and "Rumbe-Style" baby panties.
Again, thanks for your honesty.
And yes, you will find plenty of acceptance here.
By the way....... what brought about your love of diapers?
Was it rooted in your childhood? Rushed potty-training by your mother?
Just wondering.
Hello baby Marty, Thank You for writing Your thoughts