Phone A Mommy

My girlfriend really wants to have a baby (an actual one) but I don't at least not yet. She doesn't know I'm AB/DL but I think that might be a good way to compromise. I get to be the baby that she wants and she gets to be the mommy that I've always wanted. she's pretty open-minded and doesn't overthink things so convincing her shouldn't be too difficult at least I don't think so.
what do you think of my idea? Does anyone have experience in this area?

I think everyone's situation and feelings are so different it's hard to say! I do know that taking care of a bABy is very different than taking care of a baby, and at the same time it can fulfill a lot of the same needs

I agree. Every situation is different but I say I know that would fulfill a lot of needs for the both of you.