Great question!
But in order to answer it, we need to go back in time a little.
I first started calling "phone mommies" back in 1994, the year my wife left me, because in her opinion, any man who wanted to be powdered and diapered like a baby, is, "sick, disturbed, and disgusting".
So, when she packed her bags and left our 13 year marrage because I told her about my love of diapers, I was lonely, and started calling "phone mommies."
However, in 1994, there were no "phone-a-mommy" services, only phone sex lines, that were something like 1-900-blow-me. So, out of lonelyness, and wanting so badly to talk to a real, live female about my desire to be a baby again, I called. Big mistake!
Not only were these phone sex lines VERY COSTLY ($4 to $6 per minute), but the women on the phone were losers, and cheap women off the streets, hired to operate the phones. They could not, and did not understand my fantasy, and kept wanting to talk dirty to me about sex. In fact, that's all these women understood, sex, sex, sex, sex.
I HAVE NO INTEREST IN SEX!!!
Rather then excite me, and sooth me, these women anoyed me and disgusted me for the privalige of paying $4.00 per minute.
So, then I hit on an idea.
Rather then go through these 900 lines, why not make contact with an "INDEPENDANT PHONE LINE"????? So I did!
I went to adult book stores and bought fetish tabloids which had classified ads in them, and looked for women who had their own independant phone lines, where I could call them at home, and they would do my fantasy. I found one, her name was "Steffi" and she wrote me a letter back, saying that she would love to do my fantasy, and that she KNEW, EXCATLY what I wanted and needed. AND SHE DID!!!!
Steffi had a speciality of doing "foot fetish", but she was also a mother in real life, with 3 kids, 2 of whom, were in diapers at the time I was calling her. So she was able to do my fantasy, and understood me more then any 900 phone sex line ever would.
And to make sure that Steffi could really be the mommy of my dreams, I started writing, "scripts", or "stories" and having her read them to me over the phone. Since I know excatly what is in my head, and what my "trigger" words and phraises are, it's so much easer to put pen to paper and write a script and have that mommy "act" out my fantasy over the phone.
I called Steffi for almost a year, but then, saddly, she got out of the phone fantasy biz, and I had to find a new mommy.
It took me a while, but I found a woman up in Maine, "Aunt Becki", who was a wonderful mommy. At that time, around 1996 to 1998, she had one of the best AB sites on the internet. But then, she died, I think she had cancer, but she never let on durring calls.
I lost a friend, and a mommy.
We must have done over 50 calls over a couple of years, and her voice was so sweet and motherly. In real life, she had 6 kids, and she once told me,
"Poopy diapers? I don't mind talking about poopy diapers. As a mom of 6 kids, I have spent my life changing and talking about poopy diapers. So if there is one thing I know a lot about, it's poopy diapers."
But do you know what her husband did after she died?
He sold her name and web site to a porno company!!!!!!
That made me sooooo angry!
To sell the good name and Adult Baby web site of a wonderful, loving mommy like Aunt Becki, to a flithy, disgusting porno company that only peddles smut and filth, is about as low as you can go. It drags a wonderful mommy down into a gutter, after she has died.
About a year after Aunt Becki died, I found another indepandent woman who had an independant phone fantasy line, her name was Kendall, and she was from the South, with a sweet, Southern accent. (A lot like Lizabeth's voice.)
Kendall had never heard of AB's or this diaper fetish untill I called her. However, lucky for me, and my fantasy, Kendall had a "day job", and that "day job" was doing home daycare for infants and toddlers at her house.
Kendall told me that my poopy diaper fantasy was something she experenced every day in her home daycare. At her house, all day long, babies were turning red in the face and filling their pants while Kendall watched them, and "Baby-Talked" to them. She also told me that her house always smelled like poop, because she would have 3 infants and 2 toddlers on any given day, and each of them, messed their pants 3 or 4 times a day. (Kendall told me that one baby, a 13 month-old girl, had 5 poopy diapers a day at her house!
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So when I call Kendall at night, and she acted out my fantasy over the phone, it was just another day at the office, or I should say, Kendall's Home Daycare.
Then Kendall had problems with her ex husband, and had to go "underground" to escape him. Last I heard, she had moved out of her state and changed her name.
So for a few years, I went without a steady phone mommy, someone I could get to know, and call over and over again. Someone who really understands this fetish. Although I did call a few independant phone lines, no one had the sweetness, the motherly voice, or insight into my fantasy like Steffi, Kendall, or Aunt Becki.
And then, one day last year, I was doing a Google search, trying to find another steady phone mommy like Steffi, Aunt Becki, or Kendall, when Google brought up "Phone-A-Mommy".
I have to admit, I was somewhat sceptical, because at first glance, it seemed like just another "phone sex service". But upon closer look, I was very impressed with the web site itself, and especially the fourm. (Where I seem to be living these days.
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When I did pick up the phone, Janey was the first mommy I called. (OK, I admit it was the photo that got me. Janey has a really cute face, and a really pretty bottom. I love that photo!) And when Janey and I talked, she really understood my fantasy, and I was very happy!
It's now been almost a year, (HAS IT BEEN A YEAR???? Well, yes, I joined on Nov., 25, 2006! ) and I have called lot's of mommies on this site. In fact, the ONLY MOMMIES I call nowadays, are those working for Madison on the Phone-A-Mommy web site. I have my favorites, which get repete calls, and some I have only called once, because their voice just didn't "click" with my baby fantasy. But there are lot's of mommies I haven't called yet, two of them, Star and Sue, are on my list to call and see what they are like.
With just one exception, I have had nothing but wonderful experences with Phone-A-Mommy. Even if I call a mommy, and their voice doesn't "click" with my baby fantasy, I still enjoy the experence of calling them. And one of the things I like best about PAM, is that the mommies tend to stay around, and that is key. In order to get the most out of my fantasy, when I find a mommy I really like, I like to call her over and over again, because the more often she does my fantasy, the better she gets at it.
I LOVE Phone-A-Mommy!!!!
AND MADISON HAS DONE A GREAT JOB!!!!!
