Phone A Mommy

This is a bit of an unusual one and I only ask because, for a long time now, I've ended up thinking that being an abie is almost the norm. For example, every time I think of a diaper, I imagine it is practically made for an adult rather than a real baby. Does this happen to any of you?

I feel like this is a bit of a problem for me because I enjoy entertaining the idea of being more babyish. But, with so much exposure to the adultbaby lifestyle, I become a lot more familiar with baby items belonging on adults.

Wow you bring up a good question. I have wondered that. Now me personally, I started out just wearing a diaper on occasion. Then I dated someone who was into being babied, but that also was just on occasion. After that ended I felt empty and realized that I really liked being a mommy. Eventually I found phoneamommy through a friend. So most of my AB/DL experiences are here right now. Although I am starting to wear a diaper more often than I used to. Wow didn't mean to get into half my life story there, lol. Anyways, I do find myself looking at baby stuff as more for adults now too. But I didn't really realize it til now I guess. IDK, if it's necessarily a problem it's just what we are used too, ya know? IDK, I gotta think on this one some more. You have really gotme intrigued.

I'm pleased you feel so comfortable discussing your life here Josie. I'm always keen to learn more about the Mommies here. Plus, it's definitely our gain that you enjoy being a Mommy.

I'm not sure whether it's a problem or not although it's definitely something I could do without. For example, it feels odd to want to wear baby clothes but consider a diaper to be adult clothing. Even so, I'd rather be over-exposed to adults dressed as babies than not at all.

i get what you mean actually.. when I first started out on the road to diaper wearing.. i only found them sexually intriguing and had no interest in the AB lifestyle what so ever.. but as time has gone on and I have grown more comfortable within myself and the ab/dl community I have unleashed my inner ab somewhat and like to occasionally enjoy that side of things too. So Now I consider myself as a ab/DL. That is to say DL first and foremost and the lower case represents I dont mind playing as an ab sometimes. thats my way of thinking about it.

As for looking at baby things and thinking of them in an adult context.. yes I have always been fascinated with them. and only more so as I explore further into my ab/dl self.

Is this any different than seeing everyday things and my first thought being their possibilities as a spanking tool? For example hair brushes, wooden spoons etc? I can't remember the last time I used a wooden spoon in any other way. (I do brush my hair though)
I still buy baby things for babies in addition to adult babies. I am not sure who I think of it being for first honestly. I don't see what you are saying as being a bad thing. Unless of course ab became such the norm for you that it didn't hold the same excitement. If that makes sense.

I don't think it's bad. It's just what we are used to. If you are around babies all the time, you will associate evrything with babies. And like with Josie she has alot of animals that she cares for, so she talks about animals and associates alot of things with them. Or Nurse Betty, she associates alot of things with medical stuff and her nurse training. It's just what we are surrounded by. IDK if I am explaining myself good enough. But it's just that way with alot of different things for different ppl. You know what I mean. And Scarlet, boy let me tell you... my mommy is the same way. We can be out shopping, and shes all like, "oh that would be good for next time you and your brother get into my closet". Geez, heehee.

This has been interesting to read through. Thanks for the replies everyone.

I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all. I have been in this fetish for 20 yrs and I equate alot of things with adults that are for babys. When you have babies of your own, if you do. That will change. It's just what you are used to right now. Just relax and enjoy life. It's not hurting anyone.