hi everyone, rose here!
the other day my abdl and I went to the store, just to pick out some comfortable disposables because the ones we had were all thrown away, and he said that they held things in very well and were comfortable.
we go in, go to the diaper isle and we start looking around and a couple of people going past the isle give a strange look which embarrasses him a little, but i'm reassuring him that everything is alright and things are normal when he needs his diapers.
so he picks out a pack of disposables that don't have the tabs but are around the waist ones, I told him "good boy, picking out those ones, all by yourself too" and his face turned pink before we took them and went to the register