Apology

[Victoriah Nichole Little]

It has come to my attention that I have rubbed some people on the chat room the wrong way apparently. Somehow I seem to be very good at getting myself misunderstood in writing. I will attempt to set a couple of records straight.

First, I apparently made a comment in front of other chatters/potential callers that one Mommy on here was better than another. That would be a particularly nasty thing to insinuate. I am sorry that I said something that was interpreted that way - I certainly did not mean anything I said to be taken that way! I have called three Mommies on this service so far. They all have different styles and things on which they excel, and they are all wonderful. While I may prefer one ladies style to another, it does not mean I think one lady is better than another, just that I prefer her style more. Someone else may prefer another style! And, just because I PREFER one style to another, it doesn't mean I didn't like the other at all! I enjoyed each of the calls I had here.

Second, I have been calling you all "Mommy" ______ when you came to the chat room. I did not mean to creep anybody out by that. I was doing it completely out of respect. I was taught never to call my elders by just their first name - it's a southern thing. I was way more comfortable using that, but apparently it makes others uncomfortable. Since it has bothered some people so much, I'll stop unless you tell me it is ok to call you that.

Third, I am not trying to role play in the chat room. Being a LG is just my dominant personality. I don't know any other way to act. But I consider myself a very rule-abiding person! I have never asked anyone to change me, spank me, feed me, or anything else in the chat room. I never even asked to sit in someone's lap, as the rules stipulate. The only thing I did was I gave a true situation in the room once, and asked if anyone had any ideas what we should do about the situation. I didn't want anyone to tell me what they would do, I was waiting to see if any of the ladies said yes they had some ideas and I should call them. Nobody did, so that was that. If someone thought I wanted a free ride, I am sorry to have not made myself clear. I'm a regular caller - I wouldn't cheat you.

Finally, I am just trying to fit in here and maybe help out if I can. Someone said I take things too personally. That may be true, but I just want to be liked, and like to feel appreciated. I don't want anyone thinking I am the kind of person who would say one is "better" than another, or who would try to cheat in the chat room. My reputation is very important to me.

[MommyGina]

Vickie, you should not be the one apologizing, we should be. So let me start by aplogizing on behalf of everyone here at phoneamommy. You are perfect just the way you are and don't you change for anyone! I know that there is not a malice bone in your body, and I don't see how anyone could think otherwise. You are a breath of fresh air here and a most welcome addition to phoneamommy, so you rock on girl!


Mommy Gina

[TheSitterStacie]

Little Stinky Britches. I know you are entitled to your feelings, but I would appreciate it if you wouldn't post things like this. This makes our forum look like an unfriendly place. And since Lil Vickie owns the site you are refering to, she is free to post what ever she wants, and it was just her opinion, nothing more. Everyone is welcome here and they are apt to feel less welcome if they have someone bringing up past instances that happened someplace else. This is a very tight community and just because you had a bad experience with one member of it doesn't mean everyone has. So please, take some of your venom out of your response. Everyone is welcome here, and we do not want to see people attacking each other. Vickie didn't state anything in a mean way, it was an apology, nothing more and it has been dealt with by Mommy Maddy herself.

Stacie
Board Admin

[Lexus]

Dear Vicki,
I would like to take a moment to say I’m sorry if my conduct in the chat room offended you or caused you any grief. Please accept my apologie from the bottom of my heart and I hope our future encounters will be more pleasurable.
Lexi

[Victoriah Nichole Little]

Everybody makes mistakes. A really horrible person would be one who doesn't forgive. I don't ever hold grudges. (Okay, okay - I TRY not to ever hold grudges. )